Friday, December 30, 2011

2011 Picture Wrap Up

I started my phone dump from April in this post, but stopped in August.

So here is the rest of my year according to my iPhone!

 

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The Cellar! Passion Preview!

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Football Season!

 

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Rice Festival…Curly Fries, Gumbo, and Joe Nichols

 

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Watching my biggest little brother at cheer at Rice.


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Halloween 2011!
Halloween- Jason Bourne and Pig in a blanket!



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#TeamBusen!

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Women of Faith!


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Alabama Secret Church Trip!

 

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Bunco-Palooza!!

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Christmas Season!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Pump up!

If this song doesn't get you pumped up, I don't know what would...

Please turn up your volume and sing along at the top of your lungs...

All the cool kids are doing it...

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Merry Christmas

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Merry Christmas!
Love,
Ryan, Arin, and Jovie

Friday, December 23, 2011

Two little boys...

I have had two very special little boys weighing so heavily on my heart lately. I can't share a picture, but please pray for Kujo and Kofi. They are brothers in Ghana that desperately need to be saved.  Prayer is powerful.  Please pray this Christmas season!!

Remember Legasa, Kujo, and Kofi. My heart beats for them :) My God can save them. He can set the lonely in familys. He is the Great Physician.



Today I would like to leave you with some of my favorite highlighted bible verses...

Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in PRAYER- Romans 12:12

As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received- Ephesians 4:1

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. Ephesians 6:18

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!!- Phillipians 4:4

Our gospel came to you not simply with words, but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction.- 1 Thessalonians 1:5

Be joyful always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Religion that God our father accepts as PURE and FAUTLESS is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress AND to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. -John 1:27

The angel said to me,"These words are trustworthy and true. The Lord, the God of the spirits of the prophets, sent his angel to show his servants the things that must soon take place"- Revelation 22:6

The Spirit and the bride say, "Come!" And let him who hears say, "Come!" Whoever is thirsty, let him come; and whoever wishes, let him take the free gift of the water of life.- Revelations 22:17

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Pray...

A few days ago Ryan and I received the sweetest letter in the mail. It was a hand written note from our sponsor child from Project 61. His name is Legasa. I was given a report a few months ago about him that said, "Of the 150 or so of our boys at the Shashemene boarding school he was selected to be on a leadership committee of 5 boys. He is a good student, well respected by his peers and by the school!"



My heart was bursting with joy to hear this! What a difference sponsoring a child can make!!!

Today, my heart is hurting. We just received an email that Legasa's health is not good. He having tests run because they are concerned he may have Leukemia.

Please pray for Legasa specifically by name today. Maybe throught the rest of this Christmas season you could shout out some prayers for him. Thank you :)

Also, if praying just doesn't seem like enough for you, check out Project 61 and see what you could do to help. Maybe sponsor a child, take a mission trip, or send some gifts? It's an amazing organization.  

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

It's not all sunshine and butterflies....

I have been wanting to blog this for awhile now, but for some reason I just never have actually sat down and wrote it. It could be because it is still very fresh and the perfect ending hasn't quite appeared yet. Nevertheless, here goes...

Ryan and I had started this adoption journey almost a year ago. Around February we both felt totally called to adoption and from Ethiopia. I had told  a few people and they seemed pretty excited, or at least okay with the idea. We quickly realized that we would not be able to adopt until we are closer to 25, so we said well lets just try and have a baby the old fashion way. So I went back to those few people and told them our new plan.  Their reactions were typical. Excited, but not overly in your face excited. Well fast forward to July and we find out we are able to start the adoption process now. I have never been more excited or sure of something in my life. I was jumping up and down dancing around my room like a crazy person. So we started the applications. After we got approved we were so excited we wanted to tell our families and friends.

Dunnn dunnn dunnn....

Rose colored glasses turned completely clear, the sunshine had turned to night, and the the butterflies had died. People were NOT very excited about this little announcement.  Suddenly all the excitement of our adoption had been crushed and it hadn't even been a month yet. Now to be fair, we had a FEW people who were on board and excited with us. (They reactions are more precious to us than anything else- Thank you if you're reading this...) This was a really hard pill to swallow. I suddenly realized that I was no longer making people proud. Instead we were doing something that was going to hurt them and apparently us.  This was going to be hard.

Most people acted like it wasn't happening and avoided the subject. This hurt. Imagine telling someone you got into college and they all said well okay, and then never brought it up again? Or imagine telling them you are getting married and they don't want to know any of the details...no date, no color scheme, no flowers, no bridesmaids, nothing. Then imagine telling them you are pregnant with the first baby. This one is the worst for me. I suddenly realized I could NOT compare this adoption announcement to a pregnancy announcement. Even.though.it.felt.like.the.same.thing.to.me. It was hard. 

Now there were a few people that eventually told us how they felt. This was welcomed after the harsh opposite of ignoring the situation. As happy as we were that they were at least talking about the adoption (even negatively) the comments still hurt. They still sting. Some are still fresh and haven't been healed.  Some of the worst thing I have ever been told happened during this time. It was hard.

I am so grateful for my husband during this time. I truly had to rely on him in a way I never had before. It was literally me and him against the world for the first time our life. My faith was tested and my feelings toward our adoption was tested. Thank God, Ryan was on board with this. I was the one who was backing away, I was the one second guessing everything, I was the one who couldn't handle the criticism, I was the one who wanted out. I couldn't handle being the black sheep.  I couldn't do this. However, I wasn't alone. I had God and I had Ryan on my side. When we would leave after having rough conversations I would just cling to my faith. If God didn't want us to do this, He would close the doors. Literally I lived and breathed that. He would close the doors. If this wasn't in His plan it wouldn't happen. I still cling to that when I start to get overwhelmed with all the uncertainty. Without God and without Ryan I could not be adopting. It is hard.

I write all of this for anyone considering adoption. When I was reading blogs I never saw anything like this. I only saw excited grandparents and happy friends and families. While things are getting sooooo much better, it is still hard and there are still wounds. However, I know it is worth it. Even if the adoption were to stop now, it would have been worth it. We have shared Christ and seen Christ so much that it is worth every wound. Following Christ is hard.


Sunday, December 18, 2011

Tomorrow...

Tomorrow will be two years since we officially became this little family.



Sunday, December 11, 2011

charity:water= Christmas

I have been a supporter of Charity:Water for close to a year now. I really believe it is a fantastic organization. My dream would be to see my friends and family step up and have a Project fully funded. That costs 5,000. That is A LOT, but it serves 250 people with clean water.
"charity: water projects cost an average of $5,000 to implement. So if you raise $5,000, we recognize you as a water project “sponsor.” This means that you or your campaign will be recognized at the actual water project you helped fund!"-charity:water

*YOU* can be a part of that! Together we could bring water to a community. Doesn't that just make you so excited?! It certainly does me. Unrealistic- Maybe, Probably even, but I did say my DREAM.

Realistically I would be happy with any amount. My goal right now is $250. This is hopefully achievable since my anniversary, Christmas, and my birthday are coming up...

God can do BIG things!!

So, if you're reading this and your my family or friend, head on over to my Faithful In Flats donation page: http://mycharitywater.org/faithfulinflats


If you're thinking of buying me a *gift* for one of the three events I listed above (anniversary, Christmas, or my birthday), I would seriously LOVE a donation instead!!

Yes I love to get "real" presents, but I can sacrifice opening gifts to give someone water in need. Any amount would do. Maybe you really don't want to do this, you want to actually buy something. Well let me recommend maybe just donate $5! Buy me a cheaper gift!

As I am writing this, I think it sounds really shallow assuming people are like dying to buy me gifts. However, I just want to get the word out and I don't know how else to do it.

If you don't know what charity:water is, please watch this quick video.


Once again, if you would like to donate follow this link: http://mycharitywater.org/faithfulinflats.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!



Saturday, December 10, 2011

One step closer...

After this weekend, we are one step closer to a completed Dossier!! We got lots of papers notarized- FINALLY. We also got two of our three reference letters back! So whats left?

We are still waiting on getting our Home Study report back. Once we have that we will have to get fingerprinted. That stuff is all out of our control.

We need to:
Get passport sized pictures taken.
Complete our family photo pages.

Yep. That is all we have left. I know I have said like 100 times that we are finished with the paperwork. Well we were technically finished with filling out all our paperwork awhile back, but we weren't quite finished notarizing and getting them approved.

Comeeee on H.S. report :)

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Confessions of a paper pregnant momma:

Confessions of a paper pregnant momma:

I stare at every single black boy I see. I can’t help it, all I think is that is what my son will look like. 

I also can not pull my eyes away from a family of mixed races. Are they adopted? Where are they from? Where do they live? Where do they go to church? Do they have a blog?

I have no idea how to properly start a conversation with mixed families.

I am offended by people using ignorant comments about other races, but I haven’t hit the intolerable stage. 
I feel it won’t be long…

I am surprised at how relatively fast the paper chase has gone.  It isn’t actually being completed in the time frame I thought, BUT I have just been so busy with life that it hasn’t been killing me waiting for our DTE.

I try not to tell people HOW long the wait is going to be for our referral. It just seems so long. I feel like people will write the process off if they know that it might not be for another year before I even see my baby’s face.

The journey so far has not been all butterflies and rainbows. I guess that is what makes the rainbows extra special when we have them. 

I LOVE when someone asks about our adoption. Seriously, love it. :)

God has been brought to attention so many times because of our adoption.  I have read on lots of blogs that you really get to experience God in a new way through adoption, and I know that is so true.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Baking the season bright…

The past few days have been filled with baking!  Last night we had a Cookie Exchange/ Bunco party for the girls and a Tshirt Decorating contest for the boys.  The boys all really put in good effort for their shirts and they turned out better than expected! At one points the girls were inside playing bunco and football was on and the boys were outside decorating and listening to Christmas music. Needless to say, it was a really fun night and here are some pictures!029
Sooo many wonderful cookies!

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Good effort. Diversity!

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Winner! ^^


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Some of the girls!
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Thursday, December 1, 2011

Dream On...

Last night I had a dream about my baby. And orphans.

 It was a really special dream because I actually saw his face. I have had a dream before of me holding a baby, but this was a different baby. This baby's name was Everett (Real Ethiopian right? lol), and he was very young and very sick. I don't actually remember if I was looking at his picture or if he was actually with me, but nonetheless I saw his face.
I am very grateful for that part of the dream.

The rest of the dream was really sad. I was at an orphanage with lots of older boys and I was like "studying" their personalities. I guess I was trying to see which one I was going to adopt. Strange. At one point we went into a room and all the beds were built in cages. It was really sad. I woke up with just a heavy heart because all the boys wanted a family so badly.

I really felt like I had been at an orphanage first hand. All day I have had a longing to be back there. I want to love on those boys and they weren't even real!! I don't know how I will handle actually seeing children in an orphanage.

So that was my dream. Funny how hard dreams can pull on your heart.